I want to take this time to thank you all for your support in dealing with my anonymous blogger. Your comments have been great, and your e-mails have been incredible – from offering advice to humour. You certainly put a smile on my face, so thanks….everyone. x
I’ve had quite a few e-mails asking what is going on, so rather than answer them all individually, I’m going to get it out in the open here and then lay it to rest.
Anyway, after another comment came in yesterday, I set about checking my stat counter. And then half way through, I suddenly thought: “What the hell am I doing?” Why the hell should I waste my time trying to pin down an idiot? Why am I even bothering to read what they say? Just because I get an email notifying me of a comment, I don’t have to read it, do I?
We all know why people do this… I don’t have to mention it here. And regardless of what they have said and done, I really do wish them a speedy recovery.
So, for the first – and very last time…I’m welcoming anonymous blogger onto the stage. Here is some of their work from the past week. After today, it won’t be mentioned again… I just wanted to let those who asked know what was going on…and, of course, anonymous blogger looks like they want some much needed attention. Service will resume, as normal, tomorrow. Thanks to you all for putting up with this. Xx
Fucking around with others but not knowing what your
own partner wants for his birthday. Way to go! But
since he’s a man who doesn’t read you surely deserve
each other.
You amuse me greatly, Oedipa, cause Statcounter can’t
help you there. Start with a Rubik’s cube.
“She thought of a sunrise over the library slope at
because the slope faces west.”
Tis a thong which says ‘Wanted’ on the front!
Classy.
Wear it over your face.
“Her virtue was that she said what she thought, her vice
that what she thought didn’t amount to much.”
Don’t forget the masks. You’ll need one.
The picture in the header of your blog is quite terrible.
Your face looks like that of a mummy.
Could always just disable anonymous comments. Personally if someone wants to hide themselves completely I really have no interest in hearing their thoughts. They can save it for their journal that I’ll never read.
don’t let the idiot bother you. ***hugs***
Geeze. Absolutely unbelievable.
Start with the fact that these comments couldn’t be more patently untrue — you are both fascinating in soul and monumentally beautiful in form, both that perfect body and that spectacular face.
Even forgetting that, comments like these are so inhumanly mean and snidely spewed as to deserve less than contempt. They deserve the same blase’ indifference that the author him(her?)self deserves.
I know it’s much easier said than done, but try to know — with your heart, not merely your intellect — that these comments are worth less than nothing; and have less than zero truth in ‘em.
Miss U, once again you show your true class. good on you hon. you’re doing well to deal with it and then moving on once and for all.
Wow, I think some girl REALLY wants to fuck Rob
Well freak on out! That angered me just reading that garbage!
Some people, JEEZ! It’s amazing how many unhappy, bitter, angry, loathing, instigating, troublemakin’ people that are out there just wanting to get a reaction; just wanting to bring their negativity, bitterness, ugliness on someone else. I say they do need some therapy to rid themselves of their venom.
Or maybe just a good ole a**kicking! LOL. I feel sorry for the poor ole creep. Got nothing better to do than be miserable.
Misery loves company-so that’s what they do, try to bring others down. So sad really. Pathetic.
Blessings to you, my dear. YOU ROCK!
This post is great. I’ve been so tempted to post my hate mail too. You’re a true inspiration, and I thnk I’m going to save some up and do this same type of post.
BTW, I think you’re beautiful.
Ignore the pissant. Lovely wife and I happen to really enjoy your blog, and you goofs…:)
Miss U, He is not worth your time or energy. There are lots of people here who love you and support you, hundreds of people a day, who enjoy reading what you write. Please ignore these awful comments and consider this person not worthy of your time or
consideration.
Love you.
Hugs,
TME
I am shaking my head at this, Elaine. Not so much out of disgust, but out of disbelief that this individual can’t see the beauty in your writing and photography. Or the radiant warmth of your personality…
When we open ourselves up as we do on our blogs, we must take the bad reactions with the good. But hopefully bringing this running sore out in the sunshine will disinfect it and make it go away.
Oh Lordy, what a pathetic comment. Wow. Well, it is easy to understand his choice to remain anonymous.
Well done, Miss. And good luck, sir.
Hm. Unlike anonymous, I guess I’m too naive when it comes to comments. I figure, if I’m not willing to tell you my name or at least give you some clue into who I am, my comment isn’t worth posting.
Anonymous comments, I think, are like bad gossip. If what you’ve said behind someone’s back isn’t something you’d be equally willing to say to their face, you probably shouldn’t say it.
Anonymity is for cowards.
i’m sorry this happened to you. i usually just lurk at your blog, but i think you are a lovely person and i hope this anonymous troll goes away.
anteros – yes, I did consider doing this but decided against it for 2 reasons. First, this person will then no doubt set up an account – after all, it only takes a minute doesn’t it? And secondly, I have a couple of friends who don’t have accounts and felt they shouldn’t have to be put out just because of the ‘idiot’. But depending on what happens, I’ll take it from there. Thanks for your support
Thanks Art. x
Ted – That was a wonderful thing to say…thank you so much. It is hard sometimes trying to feel in your heart what you know to be true in your head, but I am trying. I can’t help but feel sorry for this person though, and how sad their life must be to warrant doing something like this.
JD – Thanks babe. I wouldn’t welcome this person into my home, so why should I waste my time allowing them their opinion in here? I don’t expect every person to agree with me and my opinions, and if anyone wants to offer a different viewpoint, I’m always happy to post it. But ignorant, childish insults are just pathetic, aren’t they? Yep…I’m moving on x
fluffycat – Thanks for stopping by and commenting…it’s always nice to know who my lurkers are!! I hope they disappear too.
Jen – That made me spit my tea out in laughter this morning!!! Rob is sooooo gonna love that comment! Thanks sweetie! x
Blessed – Yeah, Mr H knows someone called Luigi! LoL. It is so sad, isn’t it? I do not believe that it’s possible for an intelligent, decent person to act in this way, which does make me feel sorry for them. To have to wake up every single day full of bitterness and anger must be truly awful. I hope they find peace.
Mr H – Thankyou babe. That’s a lovely thing to say. My opinion on how to deal with this has changed over the weeks, and I’ve come full circle now. I haven’t got room in my life for negativity, and bothering myself with a whole load of shit which doesn’t have to affect me. So I’m back to ignoring it again. I heard about some of the hate mail you got before Lex got pregnant and it was awful. Hugs x
ZZ Man – Thankyou
I’m glad you think we’re goofy! And yes…you have a lovely, funny wife who is going to be added to my blogroll. Hugs to you both x
TME – I cannot believe the amount of support that is out here…it just blows me away when I think about it.If there’s one good thing which has come out of this, it’s that I’ve received e-mails from people who haven’t contacted me before, which in turn is just going to develop stronger friendships. So perhaps anonymous has done me a favour, eh? Big squashy cuddle for you…you know how much you mean to me. xxx
Cherrie – Thanks x I don’t actually mind a difference of opinion – in fact I’m happy to welcome it and have a civilized debate about things we may disagree on. But blatant, vindictive, pathetic comments about the way I look or dress is just ridiculous. And you’re right. A trouble shared is a trouble halved. I feel somewhat light and airy this morning! x
Fred – Thanks babe. Interesting that you think it’s a man…I think you’re all about equally split on that one. Anyway, man or woman, you’re right. It’s pathetic. x
DC – I agree with you. It is cowardly. Thankyou for your support
Stupidity is what those comments show…….the anonymous person is hiding behind a computer screen……
None of that crap is true……and nobody that reads your blog or knows you believes any of that.
*hugs*
Miss, You Rock. We all know it.
Hugs. xx
It still must be hurtful to have to read such comments- but kudos to you for outting your anonymous hate-mailer.
Maybe if he/she (I’m leaning towards it being some jealous lonely bitter woman who can’t get a fuck or get anyone to bear her children- tick tock goes the body-clock Bitch) hears they are a loser enough times they might just disappear.
Here’s hoping anyway…
x
This is really a comment for Miss Understood’s anonymous blogger, Grow Up you twisted liitle man (or woman).
How awful!!! I understand how upset you could be… and glad that you choose to just put it on the blog… Nobody should be intimidated by that sort of non sense…
This sucks. I have had negative comments too from time to time. Best to just ignore them.
Damn, Miss. You’ve done it again! You’re amazing! I’m sorry you’ve been dealing with this. I think you’ve handled it beautifully!
Seriously, this person needs to get a life!
Love you, you are fantastic!
Miss U, I have only one word for this, “Jealousy”.
Press delete and get on with enjoying your life. *hugs*
Oh Ms U why are people so mean. How does this person look at herself in the mirror, and liver in her body. It’s called Karma my friend, the time will come. You are the most beautiful women with the most beautiful soul out there. Please remember that always. This poor person is very sad and lonely and dying for a little attention. I feel sorry for her.
I’ve had a similar irritating toerag dropping in smartarse comments on my blog lately – very similar in tone, so it could even be the same guy – but whatever, initially I responded to a couple of his remarks with grace and wit, but when that didn’t work, I just deleted his comments without reading them. A quick skim would confirm it was him again, and I just hit delete. Eventually he tired of his stupid little game and went away. When we open ourselves up like this, even in the limited way that I do, there’s always going to be idiots who are jealous of the attention we’re getting and who want to ruin our day. Just ignore ‘em, and satisfy yourself with the fact that the rest of us think you’re just fabulous, darling! xx
Thanks Kristen…hugs back x
Ali – Thanks. Hugs to you too! (Gonna be doing a lot of hugging round here I reckon!) x
rn_buffoon – Thanks for that – brought a smile to my face!All I can do is hope x
Karin – well said! Thank you x
searabbit – Thanks for your support x
haaaaaaa – (evert time I see your name I have to count to 7!) Yes, you’re right. Ignoring is what I shall be doing from now on. x
GE _ Ahh, thanks for saying that. I did wonder what people would think of me for choosing to do this, but I just had to go with my gut feeling on this one. I really appreciate your support. x
Thanks Robyn – Love you too sweetie x
Suze – Thanks to you and Alex for taking the time to help me through this. It really means a lot. xx
Leigh – They were very beautiful words…thank you so much. I’m so flattered that everyone here is being so kind to me. Idiots like this just bring people closer together I think. x
Roger – I’ve seen a couple of your anon comments recently…it’s just ridiculous isn’t it? You think they’d have something better to do? I am going to be hitting delete from now on…this person is just not worth my energy. Thanks for your support…and by the way…I think you’re fabulous too dahling. xx
I’ve been plugged out for the last few days, so have missed all this. Sorry to hear about it – fucktards like this don’t deserve a second thought. I can only hope that they will be struck by lightning after a swim.
x
Have just heard about your issues with the commenter. So sorry you’re having to deal with this. It sounds like you have a good handle on it though. Keep doing what you’re doing, post what you want to post and damn the rest of them!
{{{hugs}}}
CB – Thanks for your support, it means a lot. x
DLG – Hello! It’s so lovely of you to take the time to come over and say that. Thanks so much for your support x
I’m sorry this happened to you too. Is this really just someone who ran across your blog?
c – yes, it isn’t anyone I know.